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Around SBN: NFL Players Ready To Welcome Gay Teammate

It appears someone missed the memo.

EDIT: Now in comments.

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This is another example of something Paulson said recently

I paraphrase

Everything you say on twitter is a press conference

If you wouldn’t say it in front of a mic, don’t say it on twitter.

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by Dave Clark on Feb 13, 2012 3:20 PM PST reply actions  

for what it's worth

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by Jeremiah Oshan on Feb 13, 2012 3:43 PM PST reply actions  

One thing I'll say

is that I’m glad they’re not instituting a twitter muzzle. I think twitter is great for athletes it can really provide an interesting picture about the person behind the player. Otherwise we wouldn’t have things like Brad’s Q&A with Gspurnie, and today I learned about this little exchange involving Seba:

Hopefully the Whitecaps use this as a learning moment for the whole team and Lee does finally figure it out. Perhaps he’s getting there already.

by agtk on Feb 13, 2012 4:07 PM PST up reply actions  

Good on him.

That’s as good an apology as you can expect.

by Aaron Campeau on Feb 13, 2012 4:30 PM PST up reply actions  

He's growing up right before our eyes

And that’s alright, everyone was/is young and ignorant, just gotta learn ’em.

by Thalas on Feb 13, 2012 7:24 PM PST up reply actions  

We are all growing up

Confession: I used to use the word “gay” to connote something too refined for my tastes. I don’t anymore.

by csh on Feb 14, 2012 8:42 AM PST up reply actions  

REALLY not trying to stir the pot here

and I know this is a current event/hot topic, but this really just sounds like bro-humor to me and not something any more than that. I feel like that word along with many others has become meaningless from what its original definition was, depending on the context.

by chrisperry1983 on Feb 13, 2012 9:50 PM PST reply actions   1 recs

Meaningless to the people that are using it, sure.

Not to other people that may be watching, which was kind of the point.

by Aaron Campeau on Feb 13, 2012 9:52 PM PST up reply actions   2 recs

They don't have to watch/listen/follow

They watch by choice. If you’re choosing to be offended, it’s on you at that point.

I'm so positive, you'll need AZT later.

by Steen on Feb 13, 2012 10:37 PM PST up reply actions   2 recs

BS. Total, total BS.

“Choose to be offended”? Seriously? Put yourself in the shoes of a Whitecaps fan that just so happens to be gay. How do you think something like this is going to make you feel?

by Aaron Campeau on Feb 14, 2012 12:02 AM PST via mobile up reply actions   2 recs

that said...

If someone did it in a public forum, i would happily call them out on it.

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by Jeremiah Oshan on Feb 14, 2012 9:32 AM PST up reply actions  

Twitter is a broadcast medium

not narrowcast. The ability to RT (and this was, quite a bit) makes it essentially the same as TV or radio or a website rather than a private conversation among friends.

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by Dave Clark on Feb 14, 2012 6:58 AM PST up reply actions  

We should care

It’s about changing a culture. The thing is, it’s cultural marginalization that runs deep with a lot of people. So deep, in fact, that it’s in the very vernacular of many people and they don’t even know they’re doing it. It’s probably true that Nguyen didn’t mean anything by it. I believe that. But the thing is, it doesn’t matter. It betrays that he is unconcerned about the fact that he’s a in a privileged role as a straight male in North American society, and it is this lack of concern that makes it possible for it to be 2012 CE and still have a large chunk of our population marginalized for nothing more than their hormones. Nothing will change until those that are in a privileged position align themselves to work alongside the marginalized. Thus, self policing is necessary.

The return of THIERRY

by Kyle Ritter on Feb 13, 2012 10:06 PM PST up reply actions  

The way I am reading this

you are basically saying the same thing as Dave/Aaron above? If so I agree. But I still stick by what I am saying about the definition becoming meaningless depending on context and the people involved. That word still does hurt the same way other words hurt when used in the certain context. But between two friends (in a non-public setting) I don’t see the problem here. That said, as Aaron and Dave pointed out, this being in a very public setting makes this a problem.

by chrisperry1983 on Feb 14, 2012 8:00 AM PST up reply actions   1 recs

Right.

What he says in private with his friends is totally irrelevant to me. I say some horribly offensive things in private with friends that I would never say in public, because people don’t know me well enough to know my intent.

by Aaron Campeau on Feb 14, 2012 9:53 AM PST up reply actions   2 recs

Same here

In my original post I did not take into account the public-ness of the situation. Glad we are all on the same page.

by chrisperry1983 on Feb 14, 2012 10:35 AM PST up reply actions  

Relevant to this post

I think Louis C.K. actually did one of the best bits on the use of “fag.” Watch from 4:50 on for the relevant part, though the whole thing is good if you don’t mind the language and want the full context.

http://youtu.be/v-55wC5dEnc?t=4m50s

by agtk on Feb 13, 2012 10:11 PM PST reply actions   1 recs

Thanks

Hadn’t seen that before.

by csh on Feb 14, 2012 8:40 AM PST up reply actions  

Nguyen are people going to learn?

Comments on Twitter show no context, everyone should choose their words wisely. Especially if your populairty is tied to your employer.

Go banana!

by Disco_Stew on Feb 14, 2012 9:09 AM PST reply actions  

lol

At the comment “it can only be meant on way.” Is there literally a word which the definition has changed more often then that one.

by python6114 on Feb 15, 2012 2:01 PM PST via mobile reply actions  

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